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How to Throw Shade at Your Colleagues: A Beginner’s Guide

by J. Michael Collins 25 Comments

You’d think Frankenstein had released his monster, given the mobs that have been forming lately in certain parts of the voiceover industry.

 

I’ve been a big proponent of what a genuinely nice industry this is, and in general, that remains very true. We are, as a group, far more supportive and kind than most professions, and that is to our credit.

 

Recently, however, some cracks in our welcoming smiles have been showing.

 

There has long been a subculture of aggressive skeptics in our business. A handful of cynics who see any attempt to offer services to fellow voice actors as suspect. While their acid-tongued snark can be off-putting, they provide a service in their own right, as those who would seek to exploit their fellow VO’s know they have eyes on them, and that shady behavior is subject to being spotlighted. Most of these folks have been around for at least a decade or two, and they’ve seen the good, bad, and ugly of service marketing.

 

Every now and then someone steps forward and, for a time, plays the role of Sheriff. NAVA is filing those shoes in many ways today, helping organize legal help for those who have been misled by Lisa Biggs. I had my turn back when Voices dot com’s original ownership first betrayed our trust and ultimately took them to court, and yet others answered the call when Peter Rofe used his position to victimize women in our industry. It’s a lonely role and one no one would want it for long, but sometimes it’s necessary.

 

Calling out bad behavior and protecting our industry is healthy.

 

What is not healthy, however, is the forming of mobs and attempts at call out/cancel culture based on supposition, conjecture, and just because you don’t like the way someone promotes their services.

 

So, let’s have a look at the right ways and the wrong ways to point out wrongdoing in the voiceover industry.

 

The right way, step 1: Name names

 

Don’t be a coward.

 

If you have a complaint, concern, or worry about the conduct of a fellow VO or service provider, and you feel the need to go public, have the courage to say who you are talking about, and give them a fair chance to respond.

 

The wrong way: Vague-booking, talking around the issue, or framing things in a way that can be associated to particular person without standing up and saying who you are talking about. Also, please don’t use a paean to piety as a place to drop a link to your own coaching services. Because gross.

 

The right way, step 2: Identify a victim.

 

You find a person’s conduct problematic and have named them publicly? Great! Now, who did they harm, scam, or lie to? You? If not, we’re gonna need to know the name of the person or people they DID take advantage of. If the conduct is of a nature like the Rofe incident, and the identities of the victims need to be protected for fear of causing further trauma, the matter is probably best reserved for the courts until formal charges or civil action is taken, but that’s a harder call. Otherwise, a victim and bad act need to be identified.

 

The wrong way, step 2: Inferring malicious intent based upon marketing tactics or language.

 

Yes, there are absolutely many red flags that can be inferred from the way people sell their services. But we discuss those regularly in forums in a general way. NAVA has issued best practices guidelines. And we also need to stop and remember that in a free market economy people may market their services as they please so long as they aren’t engaging in misrepresentation. MANY of the tactics that we as voice actors have come to see as shady are staples of internet marketing and completely common in other fields, and just because someone is aggressive or ubiquitous in their marketing is not ipso facto evidence of bad intentions. Buyer beware, in all things. We have a right to protect each other, but we do not have a right to attack the business of our colleagues without concrete evidence of wrongdoing. The legal system has a term for that: tortious interference….and it’s a good way to find yourself on the wrong end of a civil judgement.

 

Which leads into…

 

The right way, step 3: Show proof, and make sure it’s the real deal.

 

You’ve named the wrongdoer. You’ve identified the victim and/or bad act. Now it’s time to close the deal. Show the email chains, the money trail, the belligerent voicemails and threats, the evidence of promises not kept.

 

If the evidence you post on social media would not be sufficient to close the deal in a courtroom, you are not only acting in a morally questionable manner, you are, again, placing yourself at risk of serious financial liability. Bring. The. Goods.

 

The wrong way, step 3:

 

Posting conclusions about the person you haven’t named and don’t have evidence of having victimized anyone.

 

“They’re a liar.” “They’re a bully.” “They’re cheating people.” “They’re a charlatan.”

 

There’s a legal term for this, too. Libel. And it can also be very expensive.

 

When you attack someone’s reputation in a public forum without the proof to back it up you are not only acting like a high school bully, you are potentially damaging their ability to make a livelihood and feed their family, and you’re also setting yourself up for substantial consequences should they be inclined to defend their integrity in a legal forum. This is the very reason the civil law concept of libel exists. You also run the risk of looking like a fool and a rabble rouser among your peers. So tread carefully.

 

I am proud to be part of an industry that is filled with so many shining examples of kindness and decency. And, keeping it real, I’m glad for the cynics and skeptics and sharp-tongued critics who keep ALL OF US honest. We need those people. And I get that recent events, especially considering that many people were victimized by someone considered by just about everyone to be reputable, have left us a bit raw and uncertain.

 

What we don’t need, however, are people forming posses because someone’s marketing or personality might not mesh with every best practice orthodoxy that we’ve been told is holy writ. Check their credentials. Ask for referrals. Review the offering. Make up your own mind. But unless you have proof of wrongdoing and are willing to name names, maybe think twice before you grab a pitchfork and join a mob, or form one.

 

Someone reminded me recently that trying to be the white knight/hero usually comes off as self-serving and virtue signaling. It’s advice we could all take a dose of.

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  1. Michael Holcombe says

    January 29, 2024 at 8:55 pm

    I always appreciate the level headed response. Thanks for this input to the matter.

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  2. Joe Reeder says

    January 29, 2024 at 10:23 pm

    Thank you for your focus and clarity on this issue. As a newcomer to this industry, these incidences serve as a much needed reminder to make sure we are all doing,the,necessary vetting anytime we form a business relationship. I am also reminded that, while we may not agree with certain marketing strategies/tactics, in the end, the marketplace itself will determine the effectiveness of this approach as VO professionals “vote with their feet” by supporting or rejecting these services.

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  3. Dave Fennoy says

    January 29, 2024 at 10:47 pm

    Well said JMC… as usual. See you in Atlanta.

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  4. Norm Izard says

    January 29, 2024 at 11:49 pm

    Having the guts to call someone out for legitimate concerns is commendable and just.

    Spreading a rumor based on hearsay or unverifiable information is harmful and irresponsible.

    Have the goods, show us, if not, best to keep your mouth closed and your dignity intact.

    JMC, you are, as always a great contributer the the greater good of our industry, and I salute you for standing up.

    Unless of course that was just a rumor, in that case, I was never here.

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  5. Debra Stitt says

    January 30, 2024 at 12:10 am

    This is so valuable, JMC. Thanks for putting it out there! It takes a long time to build a good reputation and it can all come crashing down in a flash, even if unwarranted. Reputations are very fragile.

    There’s always someone watching. Bank on it!

    “Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.”
    ~C. S. Lewis~

    I love hangin’ with the peeps who have integrity! Plenty of good folk in the biz. Seek them out!

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  6. Matt Sheppard says

    January 30, 2024 at 6:37 am

    Spot on, as usual. I had to suffer through high school to learn the right and wrong way. Why are we still doing this as adults?

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  7. Liz Solar says

    January 30, 2024 at 12:14 pm

    Gratified to see an adult taking on this subject. Some of the posts on social media read more like gossip from the middle school cafeteria. Legalities aside, can we all act like professionals?

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  8. Kim Handysides says

    January 30, 2024 at 12:35 pm

    Hear, hear!

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  9. Andy Field says

    January 30, 2024 at 1:51 pm

    Nicely done. It’s funny – folks get so mad about the outrage du jour that they have to be reminded to be mad about the previous one.

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  10. Diane Hayes says

    January 30, 2024 at 2:23 pm

    Well said. Thank you.

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  11. Monique Bagwell says

    January 30, 2024 at 2:40 pm

    This is why you are an industry leader. Thank you for posting very sage advice that applies to all aspects of business and social interaction. See you at VOA!

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  12. Moxie LaBouche says

    January 30, 2024 at 3:59 pm

    As Craig Ferguson said, “Ask yourself, does this need to be said, now, by me?”

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    • Michelle Blenker says

      January 30, 2024 at 4:40 pm

      Indeed! Some of the recent mud slinging made me want to whip out my letterman’s jacket and cigarettes and go hang with the smoking crowd. I like to think of us VO’s as a glorified GLEE CLUB, which is where I am most familiar, but your analysis and advice is spot on JMC! Thank you!

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  13. Isabella Tugman says

    January 30, 2024 at 4:23 pm

    Well said, JMC! I’m grateful for our community, and that includes the warning posts, but I agree that they have room for improvement. Hopefully these guidelines will be implemented more moving forward.

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  14. Shelley Avellino says

    January 30, 2024 at 4:29 pm

    Yea, this!!! Great post JMC as always!

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  15. Marc Cashman says

    January 30, 2024 at 6:38 pm

    Keep on keepin’ on, JMC.

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  16. Mandy says

    January 30, 2024 at 7:08 pm

    Thanks.

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  17. David Gilbert says

    January 30, 2024 at 7:22 pm

    Well-reasoned advice, as always, J Michael!

    The impersonal nature of social media is akin to bars after a few beverages – you lose your inhibitions and type things you’d likely never say to the intended target to their face.

    A good reminder to many to use their critical thinking skills before posting content on a social media platform – or even their own blogs.

    It’s also a bit “Las Vegas”-ish, in that what gets said online, stays online…forever!

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  18. laura schreiber says

    January 30, 2024 at 7:51 pm

    Well said. While I much prefer when when are are all hugging each other at conferences, you are right, what has been going on has not been great. Dervla Trainer actually recently wrote a newsletter about this issue too and I hope that we can all treat each other with due consideration even when we share events we are less than happy with.

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  19. Rhonda Phillips says

    January 30, 2024 at 8:19 pm

    Yes, Yes and Yes! Great article and words to live by.

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  20. Julie Oskard says

    January 30, 2024 at 11:23 pm

    Thanks for all that you have doneto promote some decency & level headedness in this industry JMC! I wonder how much crazier I may have gone throughout the mob attacks of gaslighting I endured while looking forward to my coaching sessions with you and continuing to keep my dream of becoming a full fledge member of this profession alive. My fingers are crossed that I will someday have most of the insanity far away in my rear view with plenty of lobsters & exciting VO work ahead.

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  21. Bev standing says

    January 31, 2024 at 2:17 pm

    I couldn’t agree more, thank you for putting it so clearly and eliquently.

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  22. Natasha Marchewka says

    January 31, 2024 at 3:53 pm

    So well said! And worth sharing!! Thank you for your voice of reason and fairness. Looking forward to being with our great community this year, in large part due to you.

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  23. Tracy Lindley says

    February 1, 2024 at 4:23 am

    I really like the way you posed this issue, JMC, reminding us that if we are going to communicate for a living then we need to get the gosh darn facts straight! Although I tend to stay out of the fray, I am deeply saddened when situations like this arise.
    But our community is resilient and educating each other on proven facts is key.
    So thankful for NAVA as well!

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  24. Earl Fisher says

    February 3, 2024 at 12:51 am

    I’m not at all aware of the problem you address, but thanks for approaching it so thoughtfully. I’m confident that the energy you put into this will have a positive effect upon our community. Thanks.

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